Change, this is a thing that some people love and are
willing to try and make happen themselves, while others dread change and hope
that their life stays exactly the same. Those are the people I like to call
cowards. Others, like myself, are stuck somewhere there in the middle.
Most people get seem to get caught up in a daily routine,
and if one thing gets altered from their daily routine the person gets totally
thrown off. And this is what seems to me to be a big reason for people having “bad”
days. I believe that days like that should not be considered “bad,” but instead
they should be labeled “different.” The only days that need to be labeled bad
are tragic ones, like a relative dying or someone close being injured.
Part of life is learning how to adapt to change, but
sometimes our lives can seem to be going amazingly well at a certain point, and
a person might want it to stay the same. But even though everything is so good,
there is only one place to go when you are at the top and that is down. This is
why people that have less, seem to be happier to me because they only have one
place to go, and that is up.
The people that take on change like my dog eats his treats,
which he just goes straight after them with nothing holding him back, those are
the people that I believe live life to the fullest. When something good happens
I your life, you want to keep it that way right? But, what if an even better opportunity
presents Itself to you, but you are too scared that that change will mess up the
vibe you got going. That is when a person can mess up, in my opinion, you
should take that opportunity. Even though the first little bit will be tough
because you have to adjust, it will turn out better in the end, as long as you
stay positive.
That leads me to my personal example, in my situation; I didn’t
have a choice in what happened. My knee was messed up and there was only one
way to fix it. Surgery, and six months of rehab. So I could have either sat
around and cried like a baby and not done anything to get better, or I could
work my butt off and come back to play baseball better than I ever have before.
I took the latter route.
I changed my attitude, and started to work hard, lifting weights,
running, going to physical therapy and pretty much anything else you can think
of, and now look; I recovered from a terrible injury and my whole body, not
just my leg, is stronger than before. Balls I hit that one hopped the fence
last year are going over this year. And now I am right up there in the tops for
the state with many different statistics.
Moral of the story…move on from the past, embrace, and
create your own future.
I have to say and agree I'm stuck in the middle myself. There are somethings that are easier to move on from, but, then there is that one situation we are to afraid to let go. I know I personal have a problem with that. It's being afraid of the change and not looking into the present time if that makes sense. I also have to agree with the happiness thing it does seem as if the people who have a even harder life than others live happier. I personally believe think it is because they have lived what true life is but in the long run the one's who have it easy will have their struggle if that makes sense that will put them on the top in a different way. Thanks for sharing it was a good blog. Because, it makes sense to how I am right now.
ReplyDeleteJesse, it really is about change and being positive. It’s all about the optimistic look on things. You can either sit back and do nothing to become nothing or you can stand up and fight for what you want then eventually get what you want or even change because you realize it isn’t what you actually want. Change comes day in and day out each day we experience something new and the day is a different day. No day will ever be the same you won’t tear your ACL again, the same exact way you did the first time. Also you definitely won’t have to recover the same way you did the first time because you know how it works and you know how hard it is to do so. Being positive is one of the biggest things for success in life itself.
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