Arguments

Why do we always argue so much? This I want to know. I myself seem to get into many arguments myself. Partly because I find it fun to argue with people because when someone gets mad they say things that they don’t mean to say. They also say things and they don’t come out right. People always seem to repeat themselves a lot in an argument. Now, I understand that there are some things that need to be argued about, subjects that have to do with the well being of our country and what not, but there are also many things that don’t need to be argued about. Things like teammates arguing with each other in sports, or a husband and wife that argue all the time. I don’t like the thought of divorces, in my mind if two people choose to spend the rest of their lives together, they should. There shouldn’t be any thoughts of infidelity or unfaithfulness. You made a choice and you should stick with it. I believe that poor choices are the reason for most arguments. I also believe that if you are mad at some person for some reason, you should tell them. Just telling a person that you believe that they are doing something wrong will make them want to change a little. That is how it has been for me; I just wish people would tell me more often, because when they do, I try my best to change, because I want to be able to please people.  That is why I try not to argue with people, because once they have their mind made up, there is pretty much no way to change what they believe.

Also, people are made to get along, but since there is so much negative going on in our world, most of us are unable to see what is actually happening. Science has come to the conclusion that if you put a group of random people in a situation like being in a giant hole, they will work together to find a way out of that situation and find a way to safety.

So, I believe that if we have fewer arguments, more agreements and if we try to work together more than we do now, I believe that we would all be happier.